10 Things that women do or wear
that are not sexy to men!!
Hollywood makes women look sexy all the time. It can be hard to look like Halle Berry and Eva Longoria. The television shows and movies make it look easy for women to become beautiful everyday. Men have high standards and expectations of women and we as women need to have them for ourselves. Today’s women need to put in some effort, so they can get the men of their dreams. There are ten things that women should not do if they are still on the market looking for “The One”.
1. Clothes that are too tight or too short.
No man wants to see everything all in one night. Show one part of the body and cover the rest up. For example, a low cut top with nice jeans and heels, instead of booty shorts, mid baring top and heels.
2. A woman who is desperate to find a man.
It shows on her face and in her body language. A man wants a woman who is independent and not grabbing on every man that comes by. So, take it easy and relax!!! Enjoy hanging out with your girls and “Mr. Right” may pop up.
3. A woman that tries to drink like a man.
No man needs to see a woman throwing up in a trash can or in public. Slow down. Two hard cocktails should be enough for a woman. Ladies, you want to talk to a man not scare him away.
4. A woman who fights any and everybody.
This is not an episode of “Basketball Wives” and it is not cute to see two women fighting in public. If you cannot act like a mature woman without fighting, maybe you need to stay home or get some counseling. A man does not need to see his date or girlfriend fighting every night.
5. The crazy hairstyles and weird hair colors.
Blonde and red are fine for highlights but a whole head of purple, green and neon colors are not ok. A man wants to see who you truly are. The Mohawk is not for everyone!! The spikes cannot look good on every woman. You can still wear the natural hair or weave, but do not go crazy with the hair colors.
6. Randomly blowing smoke in a man’s face…not sexy!!!
Take your cigarettes outside the club or the date. It is not cute. Or try not bringing them with you until you are official together.
7. Cursing for no reason at all.
There is more to the English language than f**k and s**t…you went to high school other institutions, so please learn how to use other words in the English language. A man wants to date a woman not a Kobe Bryant imposter.
8. Grabbing on a man’s manly stuff.
It is just tacky and it is annoying to see grown women grabbing on a man’s stuff like it is a FDA approved steak. If he wants you he will find you, trust me.
9. A woman who always talks about her weight.
Hit the gym with him or try out a group workout class. Do not get on his nerves about the 5 pounds you gain over the weekend. Try having some fun sex to help burn a few calories.
10. Unshaved everything, from legs to armpits to other private areas.
It is not a cute thing…It holds odor and it does not make men want to come back for more. Please wax, shave, pluck or laser remove those unwanted hairs.
Ladies, you should embrace who you are, but if you are on the market like I am. You need to make yourself look amazing and clean up on your outside behaviors and appearances. No one wants a scrub, so dress and act like the classy lady that you are. Set up high standards and you will attract a good man. If not, just call or leave a message, and I will hook you up with someone.
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Seddi
Sedinam "Seddi" Kakrada is a Broadcast Journalism grad student at UNLV with a B.A. in Communication. Seddi has combined her two favorite topics, sex & communication and is striving to become the first African-American "Dr. Ruth".Seddi hails from Annapolis, MD, and looks forward to answering your questions and helping you succeed!
