The Art of Oral-Pleasure
The study at the University of Alberta shows that oral sex is part of young people’s routines. Oral Pleasure can be empowering for young women between the ages of 18 to 25. Women feel more empowered when they are giving and receiving oral pleasure. Women have more options when they decide to give oral pleasure because they can use different objects to provide pleasure to the men. Oral pleasure can provide a good stress reliever called an orgasm. Orgasms release Oxytocin, which is a natural chemical in the body that surges before and after a climax. According to MSNBC.com, when a woman gives oral pleasure to a man and ingests, she has a lower risk of preeclampsia, dangerously high blood pressure.
The studies and researchers have shown that oral sex is healthy for men and women but there is still a negative stigma associated with the act. Religion and the double standards that are place on women in our society makes oral pleasure seem like a disease. Some men and women do not perform oral pleasure very well and that can make some men and women avoid doing the act. There is no need to worry, this article will give you some tips and techniques that you can use to improve your oral skills. The first section is for the ladies and how to perform oral pleasure on their man. The second section is for the men and how to perform oral sex on their ladies.
Let’s Begin!!
Ladies!!! Take Notes!!
Tip # 1
No need to “Deep Throat” him
-You do not need to do this because you are not Jenna Jameson and it makes him come faster and leaves your mouth in pain unless you have a huge mouth.
-Instead: Work the tip of the penis with your tongue then slide it up and down the shaft. If you feel comfortable gently suck his scrotum or use your hands to squeeze them as you are licking the penis
Tip # 2
Use a cold object
You can use a cold massage oil or a ice cube to add a change of temperature while you are bringing him to climax.
Tip # 3
Manually stimulate him with a hand job while licking the head
Makes it easier for you!!
Tip # 4
Swallow if you want to!!! If you do not swallow let him come on your breasts, or face.
Sperm is healthy for women and it is fine if they chose to swallow.
Now for the Men!!! Take Notes!!
Tip # 1
Do not be shy
Do not focus on one area of the woman’s vagina. Spread your tongue and explore the inside and outer regions of the vagina
Tip # 2
Do use your fingers
Your fingers can add pressure and make the experience more pleasurable. The fingers can be used to massage the clitoris and work the inside of the vagina so that she will have a stronger orgasm. Be careful though, not all women like this so feel your partner's movements and judge accordingly. Also, manicured nails are a MUST!
Tip # 3
Put a strong mint in your mouth and BLOW!!!
Trust me it works.
Tip # 4
Use your hands all over her body
You want to feel her intense movements so that you have an idea of when she is about to come. Grab her buttocks, or feel on her thighs as you lick all over her vagina. Enjoy the sweetness that will come out of her when you have done a good job!!
Oral pleasure was created to be fun and enjoyable but if one person is bad at giving it, then it can cause a lot of problems. The health benefits to performing and receiving oral sex are endless and important to be aware of. Oral pleasure can help you live a longer life and make waking up in the morning a lot more exciting. Do not be fearful of oral pleasure and orgasms because they can help you discover your G-spot and other sexual areas. Try some tonight and see how much happier you will be in the morning.
Let me know your thoughts below
Seddi
Sedinam "Seddi" Kakrada is a Broadcast Journalism grad student at UNLV with a B.A. in Communication. Seddi has combined her two favorite topics, sex & communication and is striving to become the first African-American "Dr. Ruth".Seddi hails from Annapolis, MD, and looks forward to answering your questions and helping you succeed!
