5 successful ways to deal with people who hate on you!

One key success factor in business and in life is knowing how to effectively cope with people rejection. We all have goals that we want to achieve and big dreams that we want to fulfill. Almost everyone who has announced his/her goals and dreams started facing criticism, rejection and comments that have the purpose of putting them down.

The problem with these comments is that they sometimes come from close people and people you trust and thus you might find it hard not to believe them. After all according to the programming of the subconscious mind the repetition of any statement by a trusted source will certainly turn it into a strong belief.

And if you BELIEVED those people who put you down, you will never pursue your dreams and give affirmation to your haters!!

So how do you deal with these people?

The best way to deal with people who put you down is OBVIOUSLY not believe them...but as we know, that's easier said then done! So just how do you prevent yourself from believing the suggestions?  By understanding their real motives.

5 Reasons why people hate on you:

1) Jealousy: 

Many people will try to put you down even those closest to you sometimes because of  jealousy!  They believe that you ARE going to reach your goals and thus they do their best to prevent you from starting your journey with negativity and defeatism. The ol' "crabs-in-a-bucket" syndrome!

2) They are afraid to be left out: 

When people become losers! Those who don’t make any effort have twisted reality to feel good about themselves, but what if all of a sudden someone tried to do something big? How do you think that makes them feel? Won’t they feel left out? Of course they will and that’s the reason why so many people will try to put you down especially when your goals are big and different.

3) They are afraid:  

Not all people who will hate or put you down will have bad intentions. Some people will hate on you just because you remind them of their own fears when you announce your big plans. Many people are not brave and prefer to remain in their comfort zones and whenever they see someone trying to move out of his/her comfort zone they warn them because they believe that the world is a dangerous place while in fact the problem is that THEY are not brave enough.

4) They were severely criticized:  

Many people who were severely criticized in their childhood have developed the habit of always thinking negatively. Those people criticize themselves all the time in their self talk and they do the same to anyone they come across

5) They can’t see the full picture:  

Some people will try to put you down because they have good intentions, like parents for example. The problem with many of those people is that while their intentions are good they always give incorrect advice because they cannot/will not see the full picture you are seeing.

Should you believe them now?

Should you give up your dreams just because a few people are jealous of you?

Should you respond just because someone doesn’t want to see you successful?

The answer is: NO!

GUOYBAS!